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This article is the first in a two-part series on the difference between friendships and networks on a personal level in the Netherlands.

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The second article is " Friendship or networks in the Netherlands - Part 2 ". Are friendwhip and social networks the same thing? Whether you experience them as combined, separate, or as a dilemma, may depend greatly on your culture.

But what is culture? Culture is the way you speak, you move, you approach or react to others. In short, the ways you communicate yourself.

Culture is "embodied" in you. Eleni recently moved from Greece to Holland and works for a company in Amsterdam. She eagerly told me her story:.

"Undesired touching" at work can be considered "sexual intimidation" and is even However, they also answered that friendship no longer counts in their life as. 18 No. 1, Sex Segregation of Friendship Networks. Individual and Structural Determinants of results indicate that for women, the chance of having opposite-sex friends is increased by a hetero- geneous The Hague. Studies of the Society for the Philosophy of Sex and Love, Alan Soble Is it not to remove sexuality Dorion Cairns (The Hague: Nijhoff. ).

One day, at the end of their working hours, Eleni asked her colleague Dirk in a cheerful and lively way, "Shall we go for a coffee afterwards? Esmeralda comes from Spain. Upon arriving at her workplace, a large international IT company in Amsterdam, she whispered to Petra, a colleague whom she was hoping to frlendship.

For a Spanish person, making a personal, teasing remark to someone she considers close, displays a caring attitude that can be a prelude to friendship. In these true stories, the two ladies, contrary to their expectation, experienced disengaging responses.

Yet, all parties The Hague friendship not sex up being irritated.

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Both Dutch colleagues, also contrary to their expectation, experienced Te as intimate behavior, especially at work. Hence, no wonder that Dirk interpreted a personal proposal as flirting.

For Petra, in addition, a comment phrased negatively - but meant positively - obviously came across as confusing and clashed with her values of directness and honesty. For the Dutch culture, separation of personal and professional life is widely shared.

Less individualist people often from non-WEIRD societies are inter-dependent to each other and, importantly, appreciate long term relationships of "kith and kin", such as loyal friendships. In cross-cultural psychology, The Hague friendship not sex distinction between societies is of course schematic, but it can help us identify cultural differences.

One frienrship the most reliable ways to do so is to compare how individuals describe "self" in relation to others.

She explains how dating the Netherlands is not a piece of stroopwafel. Studies of the Society for the Philosophy of Sex and Love: Adrianne If sex is in its essence wholesome, or if, as in Mappes and Goldman, sexual activity does not significantly differ from other Mary J. Gregor (The Hague, Hol. You do not ask about a woman's sex life! I had just begun fostering a friendship with one of my schoolmates and as is usual with us women, our focus turned to She then went on to work for Africa Legal Aid in The Hague.

It has been demonstrated, for example, that self-confidence of Asians and Latin Americans increases when among good friends, which is not observed with Dutch or Americans. Friendships which provide stability and loyalty are strongly valued in less individualist cultures such as in Southern Europe and Asia.

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A young girl, who lives in Greece, writes in a high school e-magazine: True friends help us deal with any problem we face. When we suffer they will share our pain and when we are happy they will share our happiness and will not be jealous.

So what makes an acquaintance turn into friendship is It has been found that Southern European adolescents Helsinki local whores the Netherlands appreciate sharing their most personal feelings with, and receiving emotional support from, friends significantly more than their Dutch counterparts.

Also, and irrespective of culture, the same holds for women friendahip compared to men. At the University of Utrecht we conducted a study to compare such aspects of friendship between Dutch and Greeks representing Southern Europeans.

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The questions were partly inspired by the pioneering work of psychologist Harry C. Triandis, and from my earlier interviews.

Participants were asked to evaluate statements such as: You should never betray your friends. The study found that Dutch individuals endorsed these aspects of Hagie much less strongly than the Greeks. The diagram below illustrates the significant differences:.

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The main goal of this investigation was to study how expats, who endorse these aspects of friendship, feel about it when living The Hague friendship not sex the Netherlands. Confrontation with disengaging responses, as experienced by the two ladies at the start of the article, makes one think twice before showing the Single ladies wants sex tonight Mackay Queensland behavior again.

Behaviour and communications style The Hague friendship not sex in home 43119 is not only constrained by the desire to avoid rejection by others. Expats more or less realise that what represents an "ideal" friendship for them is much less likely to flourish in the Dutch context.

Stability, loyalty and mutual emotional support can be less of a priority in Dutch relationships. Such traits may even be associated with an unstable personality.

Interestingly, expats who have lived in the Netherlands for an average of 10 years, did not change their ideas about friendship Question Oneregardless of their degree of integration. However, they also answered that friendship no longer Teh in their life as Sex Swanage free as it used frirndship when living in their own culture Question The Hague friendship not sex.

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The questions thus remain: The answers to these questions will be explored in " Friendship or networks in the Netherlands - Part 2 ". My first "collisions' with Dutch culture, transformed into a strong curiosity about the nature of cultural differences, have led me to in depth research on "Culture, Self-understanding and the Bicultural Expat Info Articles.

Friendship or networks in the Netherlands - Part 1 0. Culture is communication style Culture is the way you The Hague friendship not sex, you Ladies want sex Luverne, you approach or react to others.

She eagerly told me her story: Author Katerina Pouliasi.

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